How nap needs change
Newborns sleep in short bursts day and night. Over the first year naps consolidate into a morning and afternoon nap, and many children move to one afternoon nap in the second year. By about three to five years, many children stop napping, though ages vary.
The American Academy of Sleep Medicine advises 11 to 14 hours for toddlers and 10 to 13 hours for preschoolers, including naps (Paruthi and colleagues, 2016).
Signs your child still needs a nap
- Cranky or clumsy by mid afternoon
- Falls asleep in the car or buggy at the same time every day
- Settles easily at nap time
- Gets overtired and wild if the nap is skipped
- Needs a nap to last until a reasonable bedtime
Signs they may be ready to drop it
- Takes a long time to fall asleep at nap time
- The nap pushes bedtime very late
- Plays happily all afternoon without a nap
- Sleeps well at night without one
- Is moving to full time school or nursery
When childcare schedules do not fit
Nurseries often run a group nap at set times. Children differ, and a fixed nap may be too long, too short or at the wrong time for your child. Talk with staff about your child's pattern, ask for flexible times or quiet rest instead of sleep, and watch how bedtime changes.
If an afternoon nap is delaying bedtime, shorten it by wake up at a set time, usually before 4 PM.
Naps and bedtime
A late or long nap can push bedtime later. Too little daytime sleep can lead to an overtired child who sleeps worse at night. Use the baby sleep calculator and the nap calculator for rough ideas, then adjust to your own child.
Safe sleep reminder
For babies, always follow safe sleep rules: back to sleep, a firm flat surface and a clear sleep space. See the safe infant sleep guide. This page is general education and not medical advice. If you have ongoing sleep problems, loud snoring, breathing pauses or severe daytime sleepiness, speak to a doctor.
Reading tiredness cues
Young children show tiredness by rubbing eyes, yawning, losing interest, becoming clumsy or fussy, or going quiet. Older toddlers may become hyperactive when overtired. Catch the early cues and start your nap routine then, as an overtired child often sleeps worse.
Keep nap and bed routines similar: a dim room, a short story and the same words each time.
Keeping quiet time when naps end
When your child stops napping, a daily quiet time of 30 to 60 minutes with books, puzzles or soft music helps everyone recharge. Move bedtime a little earlier for a few weeks while they adapt. Check total sleep against the ranges in our sleep needs by age guide.
Example daily patterns
A 9 month old might sleep 11 hours at night and nap twice, for around three hours in total. A two year old might sleep 11 hours at night and nap once for 1.5 hours. A four year old might sleep 10 to 11 hours at night and nap only sometimes. These are only examples, and healthy children vary.
Use your child's mood and growth, along with advice from your paediatrician, to judge whether the pattern works.
Tips for smooth naps
- Keep the same time, place and cue each day
- Use a dark, cool, quiet room
- Put babies on their backs on a firm flat surface every time
- Avoid screens before naps
- Leave a small gap after meals before lying down
- Stay calm and consistent if the child resists
Naps are a learned habit, so expect good days and bad days. Be patient and flexible as your child grows.
When to ask for advice
Talk to your paediatrician if your child snores loudly, stops breathing in sleep, is very hard to wake, is extremely sleepy in the day or has sudden changes in sleep. Also ask if bedtime battles last for weeks despite a steady routine.
Every child is different, and a trusted clinician can help you separate normal variation from a problem.
Frequently Asked Questions
When do children stop napping? ›
Most between about 3 and 5 years, with big differences.
How long should a toddler nap last? ›
Often one to two hours, but it depends on night sleep.
What if my child will not nap? ›
Offer quiet time in a calm room for a short period.
Can a nap cause bedtime problems? ›
Yes, if it is long or late.
How many naps for a one year old? ›
Many have two, moving to one by around 15 to 18 months.
Should I wake a napping child? ›
If the nap runs late and harms bedtime, waking gently is reasonable.
Written by F.A and last updated on 5 November 2026. Claims are checked against the peer reviewed papers and public health sources listed below, and findings from small or early studies are labelled as such. We follow our editorial policy and explain how times and results are calculated in our methodology. Calculators run in your browser and store nothing. Found an error? Tell us and we will correct it.
Sources
- Paruthi S et al. Recommended amount of sleep for pediatric populations. J Clin Sleep Med 2016
- Hirshkowitz M et al. National Sleep Foundation's sleep time duration recommendations. Sleep Health 2015
- Moon RY et al. Sleep related infant deaths: updated 2022 recommendations. Pediatrics 2022
This page gives general information for adults and is not medical advice. If you have ongoing sleep problems, loud snoring, breathing pauses or heavy daytime sleepiness, speak to a doctor. Times and results are estimates.
